Lunes, Hulyo 1, 2013

Blogpost : 1 Friendship

                  Many people say that friends are the one who will comfort you, cherish you and love you like their brother/sister, person whose not afraid to scold you when you've done something wrong and someone that will give advice when you are bothered by something and someone you can rely on. Friends are important to our life.


When your together, you wouldn't ask for anything and you are comfortable all the time. They can be a "knight and shining armor" if you are down, she/he will comfort you if you are sad or have problems with family, love and etc. They can be the clown in your life because friends can make you smile even if you are down, they are always there if you need something or if you want  to talk to.


 Sometimes Friend can be your best enemy but at least you will be always be friends in your heart and soul that can't be erase in your mind and heart. I've only had few a so-called friends in my entire life, usually one best friend.


What exactly friendship to us ? Is this the people who encourage us to be good ? There are many people have friend, you can have friends when two individual people interact with each other and they feel comfortable when they are together.




I've read an article written by Saberi Roy Entitled: "The Psychology of Friendship" which i found in ezinearticles.com.

"These article explain yet friendship like love depends on the single factor of attraction and in this case, it is more mental and emotional rather that physical attraction."

The attraction of two individual people depends on how they meet each other. There are way's how to meet friends. Base on the article that I've read, you can meet friends inside a School. You can choose a friend by unconsciously, because your mind can tell if that person can be your friend. The same with love, they choose a lover by unconsciously, they don't love a person by seeing it. They feel it, it's accidentally.


The second attraction, Attraction by a personality, physical appearance, mannerism, and attitudes that a person have. For example you meet a person, you've been attract to him/her because of her physical appearance. It's involuntary to have a attraction by people you've meet in a short time.

Attraction of Friends and Love, They have the same because when you are attracted to a person it's like you have a feeling "Like at First sight, and for the love, "Love at First Sight".

If you are a fan of social network like facebook, twitter, and etc. You can meet random people by just adding or twitting them. You can have a connection of person who you chat, for example you are asking many question and the random person answered you, you have a rapport to each other that can help to build a friendship.


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